I read an article saying that the statement that the local little boy named Jacob who was terminally ill was a “Rumor.” Seeing I was told about this and also reached out to other people, I felt it was my responsibilty to my family, friends, and readers to find out the REAL truth.
I now someone who lives in Mexico and I was able to find out more of what is or isn’t true. This has turned into something huge. I wouldn’t say it is a by any means a “rumor.” I would say in is an extension of the truth.
The boy has been diagnosed with leukemia, is receiving treatment and is doing well. He is not currently terminal. He did in fact say he wanted Christmas cards. The parents aren’t sure who started this kind act but wanted to make things clear. They are overwhelmed with the response. (I became aware of it through a friend whos work sponsered an event with santa that he and his family attended.)
This is just an example of making sure the information that you have is 100% correct before completely following through with something this big. Although, at the same time it could have happened anyway. Do you remember when you played telephone as a child. The statement that comes out in the end isn’t what it started out as. It can be similar but can also be totally off from what was initially said.
The family is apparently grateful for the support and the little boy loves the cards. But he is only a preschooler and doesnt quite understand. People have sent money, pictures, gifts, and cards with messages. Some , no offense, “dumb people” have apparently written have a great LAST Christmas (HELLO PEOPLE) or have said good luck with treatment. I would assume it all has gotten a bit confusing for Jacob seeing he is only 4.
Anyhow, I think something they thought was small, in fact turned into way more than they bargained for. They have said it would be “okay if the letters stopped” but it’s almost Christmas so I dont think they will.
I would not have done anything different. He is a still a little boy facing a difficult illness, terminal or not. Even if I was told he had Leukemia and was doing well, I would still have sent him a card. The point that a little boy simply asked for christmas cards when he could have asked for anything else, touch me even more.
We can all take something for this in the end. Even though our economy isn’t doing so well and our lives are consumed with so many things to do these days, thousands of people (25,000+ so far), from NY State to China, still have love and compassion in their hearts. That we all can come together and support one another through the hardest times. That MEANS something.
And for that, whether we were slightly misinformed or not, the Hadcock Family and everyone in the world should be very grateful.
I had heard about this. So nice to know that it's a (mostly) true story. I am sure Jacob will treasure those cards as an adult!